“Friends”
Before I start, I need to emphasize something. I am not making "parinig" to anyone in particular, this is just a general observation. Although, if you start to feel guilty, I have accomplished what I am setting out to do. : )
We all have friends, right? Some we see a lot, some we hardly see at all. Some who just love to keep in touch and some who are just too busy. Some really close friends and then some who are just acquaintances.
Of all the varying levels of friends that we have, the "friends" that tend to irk me are the ones who know you only when they need something. Then, magically, they become your best friend. Sound familiar to anyone? Do you know anyone like this?
If you really think about it—actually, you don’t even have to think about it, these people are not "true" friends. They have become friends of "convenience". What they say or do should not really bother you since they do not really value your friendship. Your value to them, is only, what you can do for them.
Do I sound too harsh? Sometimes the old adage is true— that you have to be cruel to be kind. Life is too short to have to worry about people who do not sincerely care about you. Focus on those real friendships that come from the heart.
Why worry about the opinions of the insignificant people in your life? It is important to think positive, happy thoughts. It is also important to maintain positive, happy friendships.
Who needs users? Not me! That’s for sure.
Okay, have I made you feel guilty? This posting is not directed at any of the friends on my list. If you still feel that way, you can always remedy the situation by trying to improve those friendships that you have been neglecting—while you still can.
Until next time. Take care.
